Apr 08 2010
THE BRIDE OF CHRIST and MAN-BRIDES
Recently I sent the people on my mailing list a very joyous message relating what I had just heard Dr. Adrian Rogers say on bbnradio.org. Dr. Rogers, who has been in glory for several years, said that we invite people to walk down the aisle of our church because a bride should walk the aisle to meet her husband-to-be. A bride is dressed in white, and places herself to be seen by everybody. A sinner who has just trusted Christ Jesus as his Saviour has suddenly been made pure white by the blood of the Saviour. He will want everybody to see that he has trusted Christ Jesus as Saviour. My email message was well received by the Believers on my mailing list, and many wrote me to express their joy in hearing it. Most, like me, had never heard such an application of truth.
But there were some folks on my mailing list who were offended that a man could be a bride! And they didn’t believe it. This did not surprise me in the least, because I know that people who don’t believe the Bible give all sorts of reasons why the Bible can’t be believed. Culture and time seem to be the biggest hangs ups. Some, of course, like some atheists on my mailing list, don’t even believe there is God. The idea of a man-bride is so repulsive to me that it churns my stomach as it does the unsaved man who is not perverted. The notion that two men can marry is offensive in the extreme. I love sodomites, but I hate what makes them that.
Marriage is so holy that the least impurity in it makes it the foulest of corrupted things. Like a fly in the ointment, it stinks. Of course, perversion is the first thing that pops into the mind of the natural man when a man-bride is mentioned. Christians must remember that a great number of unsaved people are good, fine, honest, decent people. They are not wicked. They are not guilty of gross sins. We must somehow convince people that it is not the sins of the flesh that send people to Hell; it is refusing to be saved by the grace of God through Jesus Christ our Lord. Most people don’t understand that all human beings are born sinners; they do no become sinners by sinning. By sinning they only increase their punishment.
The idea that being a member of the bride of Christ makes a man effeminate is also repulsive to me. I can’t list the things that prove I am a man (truck driver, bass fisherman, etc.) because women do those same things. But I am a man. I am not effeminate. God hates that. Yet, I have walked as a bride down the aisle to meet my Saviour at the altar. I have a friend not three miles from me who is a Medal of Honor winner (and has a half dozen other medals, besides: silver star, etc.). When he enlisted as a country boy private, he was blind in one eye. He fought in Korea and Vietnam. It is unbelievable what he did as a foot soldier. He retired a bird colonel. He loves one of my sons and his family. He claims Jim as his own son. This man loves the LORD, and faithfully serves Him each week in worship, in spite of his disabilities from being shot to pieces. He is a member of the bride of Christ.
A past president of the Southern Baptist Convention was at our church last year in a men’s conference, and I had the privilege of shaking his hand. This man was a marine captain in Vietnam. His camp was under attack every night by the enemy. One day it became necessary for the captain to lead a patrol into the jungle to eliminate this problem. As he went through the jungle, he came to a trail he had to cross. As he stepped out of the growth onto the trail, he was shot in the right chest. The bullet went through his chest, and exploded out the other side of his body with a large chunk of his body tissue. The colonel who commanded his company landed in a helicopter nearby, and found the captain’s body. It was carried to the helicopter, and thrown in on a pile of dead marines. When the helicopter landed at their headquarters, they noticed that the captain was still alive. They loaded him on a medivac helicopter, and flew him to a nearby hospital. The captain is now traveling over the world connecting American churches to foreign churches in a missionary work. He is a man. He is a member of the bride of Christ.
“And there came unto me one of the seven angels which had the seven vials full of the seven last plagues, and talked with me, saying, Come hither, I will shew thee the bride, the Lamb’s wife.” Revelation 21:9. The Lamb’s wife is made up of men and women, boys and girls of all denominations and races who have claimed Jesus as Saviour. This great conglomeration is called the Church, as well as “the Lamb’s wife.” Right now, we are the bride.
But I must stop now, and tell you something that is apt to raise your hackles, and cause you to be offended if you are not a believer in Jesus Christ. I would be offended, too, if I were you. I understand. The Bible not saying that you are not intelligent, or that you do not know anything. This is what God says, and it will explain to you why the business of man-brides doesn’t make any sense to you. The statement is in I Corinthians 2:14: “But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know [them], because they are spiritually discerned.” You see, you cannot understand the Bible because it is a spiritual book, and you’ve rejected the spiritual. Isaac Asimov was as educated and brilliant as a man could be, but he didn’t understand the Bible, even though he wrote commentaries on it. Isaac Asimov was an atheist. God did not write the verse to insult anybody, but simply to state a fact. Natural men do not understand spiritual things. They shouldn’t expect to, since they have rejected the spiritual God. A natural man is one who has not acknowledged Christ Jesus as his personal Saviour and LORD. The natural man can understand the Gospel, and he must be saved thereby. But he understands the Gospel by the faith that God will give him at the time. The truth of what I am saying is demonstrated by the fact that the saved people, the Believers, on my mailing list understood perfectly what I reported, and rejoiced in it as I do.
When a couple has been married for many years, they often lose their reproductive drive. Drugs and weakness make the reproductive act impossible. That doesn’t mean the marriage is over. On the contrary, the marriage ripens into a delicious, warm relationship that exceeds in benefits the relationship they had before. An old man looks upon his wife as his precious lamb whom he nourishes and cherishes, protects and shelters. She belongs to him. She is his child-bearer who has borne him children. She is a divine gift that he delights in after the inward man (his heart, his soul). It is no longer her outward beauty that he glories in. It is the beauty of the inward person that he gazes upon with such satisfaction. This is exactly the relationship of Jesus Christ and His bride, and the thoughts of Christ Jesus toward His bride.
The old bride takes the confident attitude that makes her leave locking the doors at night in the hands of her husband. She leaves the provisions of food, shelter, and raiment in the hands of her husband. She revels in his loving care of her. She does little or no worrying about the affairs of the family. She loves being his pet. She understands him, and knows about him. The old bride has a sense of security because of the fact that she is loved and claimed. She delights to serve him. To her, the greatest thing in the universe is to belong to a good man. I know all these things because it is written for our learning in the Bible, blessed book. And I also know that these are the very things that women’s lib hates, and has, for the most part, destroyed in our society. Result? Divorce. Unhappiness.
There are many Saints all over the world who endure great persecution for their faith. Some are tortured and killed. Some suffer worse fates. The Muslim child who ran away from home a while back, ran away because of a fear of her father. She had become a Christian. These persons are strong, courageous people whom we can admire.
I have likely made a complex (spiritual) subject even more complex, but in the hope it might be of value, I offer it. You natural men, I urge you to rely on Jesus Christ to save you from eternal loss, and put light into your mind.